Coat and Blanket Drive: It’s almost that cold cold time of year again. Help out the community by donating.
We got a really wonderfully nice voicemail from one of our members, and wanted to share!
Coat and Blanket Drive: It’s almost that cold cold time of year again. Help out the community by donating.
We just trained over 50 advocates and have been so impressed by them so far! They have been volunteering in the office, meeting with members, participating in team meetings and overall just being amazing at what they do.
For this blog post, I interviewed two new advocates who have been working with a CEF member for around two weeks. Here’s what they have to say about their experiences advocating thus far.
Thank you Ian and Sophie for your input and thanks to ALL of our new CEF advocates for your involvement and enthusiasm!
CEF Love,
Audrey
Member Advocate Coordinator
Tell me a little about yourself! Year in school, what you’re studying, favorite past time and… your middle school AIM screen name 🙂
Sophie:
My name is Sophie Mohajerani, I’m currently a Sophomore here at Carolina and loving every second of it. My potential major is business and economics and I like to spend my free time involved with a variety of student organizations and volunteering. My favorite past time would have to be ice skating, I was a figure skater in elementary and middle school. My middle school AIM was TarheelBBlue, I grew up in a Carolina household so I’ve been a fan forever.
Ian:
I’m a freshman music major studying classical piano. I enjoy hiking and fishing, indulging myself with the romantic travails of the literature of Gabriel Garcia Marquez, and playing Frisbee/ t-ing the d/ seshing the mellow earth biscuit. I’ve also enjoyed the move from New Hampshire to North Carolina and the chance to share a different vernacular with my new North Carolinian friends.
What caught your eye about CEF? In other words, what drew you in to volunteer with us?
Sophie:
What caught my eye about CEF was the emphasis on forming relationships that are long lasting. I was looking for an organization that I could feel a part of and it seemed like it would be a great fit! I was hesitant at first because the tasks of handling someone’s future in my own hands is a bit daunting but knowing I would be trained and guided each step of the way made me feel at ease and excited about CEF.
Ian:
I was interested in finding a way to work with the homeless and underemployed community in Chapel Hill, and when a friend told me about the interest meetings at the beginning of the year for HOPE Gardens and CEF I was eager to get involved. I also thought that getting some experience doing practical work with people might help me determine what I want to study in the next four years.
Have your initial impressions of CEF been changed since you started to volunteer? If so, in what way?
Sophie:
Yes, I had made assumptions about CEF members that I quickly experienced to not be true. I came into CEF assuming that members would be hopeless and have negative attitudes due to the hardships that they have had to experience. However, what I have discovered was completely the opposite, my current member is proactive and constantly being positive about his future with the realistic goal in mind that he can attain it over some time. This outlook on life and reaction to challenges that life brings was truly inspiring to me.
Ian:
I initially thought the CEF was more of a microfinancing group, but learning about the advocate program was really what drew me in. Advocating struck me as a challenging but also very rewarding experience, and I saw it as a chance to try something I didn’t think I was capable of doing.
Tell me about how advocating is going (when you started, what you guys have been working on, etc.).
Sophie:
Advocating is definitely a team effort and I have really been enjoying it. I started last Thursday with my partner Ian and a more experienced advocate, Olivia. We worked on our member’s resume that needed to be updated as well as filled out two job applications for hotel restaurants in Chapel Hill. Our member is in search for a daytime job to have in addition to his nighttime job that he has. The experience overall was very rewarding, we all felt accomplished and our member seemed relieved that there were some jobs available. We also planned what is in store for this week which is to transfer his food stamps to Orange County and apply for the Obama cell phone.
Ian:
I met my member during my first day in the office, about three weeks ago. He’d already been in a few times and filled out a resume with a CEF advocate, so I worked with Santi to work on a new member plan with him. Sophie and I have met with our member twice now, and we’ve been able to help him apply for a cell phone and a few jobs. He’s hoping to pick up a second job so he can save up to find his own place to live. His long-term goal is to become a Certified Nursing Assistant.
What has been the most challenging about advocating so far?
Sophie:
The most challenging part about advocating so far is trying to learn the multitude of resources available to advocates to help their members. I feel as though I am not familiar with governmental benefits that are available to members and I would like to know more so I can be of more help to members.
Ian:
I’ve learned that filling out documents and applications is generally a tedious process, and determining how to give “yes or no” answers to questions that may require more nuanced responses can be frustrating. Mostly, I wish I knew more – at every meeting I usually generate a list of things I need to learn about, but I never find time to research them all.
What is your favorite part about advocating thus far?
Sophie:
My favorite part is honestly just listening to our member and hearing his stories and how his perspective of life is yet so bright although he has been through so much. I was told at the beginning of training for CEF that I would end up learning more from member than they learn from me. I believe this to be true and that is why I enjoy being a part of CEF.
Ian:
The CEF vibes are definitely real. I love going to office hours, hanging out with the other advocates and members and working with Sophie and Anthony, and after our meetings on Thursdays I’m always stoked about everything else I do for the rest of the day.
FORUM SERIES: POLITICS, RACE & THE NOVEMBER ELECTIONS
SEPTEMBER 10 “Civil Rights and Disenfranchisement”
Speaker: Daryl Atkinson, Staff Attorney, Southern Coalition for Social Justice
Hargraves Center, 216 N. Roberson St.,Chapel Hill, 7:00-8:30 pm
SEPTEMBER 20 “Issues of Economic Justice”
Panel: Ajamu Dillahunt (NC Justice Center), Robert Dowling (Community Home Trust), Maxine Eichner (UNC School of Law), Ellen Harnick, Center for Responsible Lending
OWASA Community Rm, 400 Jones Ferry Rd, Carrboro, 7-8:30 pm
OCTOBER 4 “What Will Happen With Health Care?”
Panel: Cedric Bright, MD (Asst. Dean, UNC School of Medicine, President of the National Medical Association), Pam Silberman (CEO, NC Institute of Medicine, Adam Searing (Health Access Coalition, NC Justice Center), Gayle Harris (Director, Durham County Public Health)
United Church of Chapel Hill, 1321 MLK Jr Blvd, 7:00-8:30 pm
OCTOBER 18 “Public Education Disparities”
Panel: Mark Dorosin (Managing Attorney, UNC Center for Civil Rights), Keith Howard (Charlotte School of Law, formerly with Advocates for Children’s Services), Katy Munger (Progress NC)
United Church of Chapel Hill, 1321 MLK Jr Blvd, 7:00-8:30 pm
FREE AND OPEN TO THE PUBLIC
Sponsored by: The Organizing Against Racism Alliance
For more information: contact Wanda Hunter (whunter1@nc.rr.com); organizingagainstracism.com
Through this program, we won’t just be partnering with members on their savings goals. We will also be focusing intentionally on their longer-term dreams for their households. When asked, “What are your goals for the next 3 years?” here’s what members are dreaming about…
Help us get there together. Sponsor a Saver to join together with one of our 10 pilot Savers, as they continue to invest in their own and their family’s futures.
Stories of the Long Road Home: How Relationships and Savings are Helping Homeless Families
Please join us for a half-hour after the service at Christ Church on Sep 23rd and enjoy coffee and dessert.
You will get to meet and learn from several of CEF’s members who have moved out of the shelter and who will share about their journeys and the unexpected struggles along the way.
This month CEF started a new savings program to help these families sustain their transitions out of homelessness. Members save towards an emergency fund, building a financial safety net for a rainy day. CEF matches members’ savings at 50%, helping families save as much as $3,000 for when they need it most.
CEF needs your help launching this program. The group is recruiting community members interested in sponsoring one of the pilot 10 Savers in this creative program. Learn more, hear incredible stories, and enjoy homemade desserts by joining us on Sep 23rd.
For more information on CEF and its impact in our community, please visit: CEF one-minute video
And for more information on CEF’s new Sponsor-A-Saver campaign, please see: Sponsor a Saver
Robert will be moving out of the men’s shelter this month. While living in the shelter, he has been saving with CEF towards a security deposit for his new apartment and deposits for utilities. He is disabled and on a fixed income, and has taken the knowledge he gained from our financial education classes to find an affordable apartment that will allow him to continue to save for his future goals.
After he moves, Robert will be continuing to come to our weekly classes to stay connected to the support, resources, and community of the group. Robert has been homeless once before in his life, and when he talks about this move he says excitedly that he “is going to do it right this time. Make plans, keep saving, stay connected.” He is committed to saving monthly towards an emergency fund to make sure that life’s future obstacles don’t bring him back to the shelter.
Robert will be one of 10 pilot members in CEF’s Renter’s Savings Program. The program provides Savers like Robert the opportunity and incentive to save towards an emergency fund, matching savings up to $2,000 with a 50% matching contribution… resulting in an emergency fund of $3,000. Robert is also excited about the opportunities available through this new program to improve his credit score. He dreams of owning his own business and his own home, and knows this is the stepping-stone to those goals.
Help CEF launch this new program. Sponsor a Saver to donate the 50% matching contribution, directly matching the savings deposits of members like Robert.
CEF: Community Empowerment Fund is holding an Advocate Training! Learn everything you need to know to start working one-on-one with members of the community dedicated to their own success. CEF is not a charity – it’s a community approach to empowering individuals. Trainings on September 4 and September 11, 6PM to 8PM in the Campus Y, Room 207. CEF offers savings opportunities, micro-loans, financial education, and one-on-one support to people who are homeless, unemployed, or under employed
By: Lyndsey Fowler
Profiles of several of our Durham members!
Name: Jacqueline Bostick
Hometown: Halifax County, Virginia.
Favorite Quote: “Girl, Please,” she said as she giggled.
Interesting fact: “I’m the All-American Girl. I am capable of doing many things, I am positive and traveled; but I’m still just a plain Jane”.
Passions/Hobbies: “I write short stories, plays, and skits. I’m also well-versed on the piano and with singing; artist of all sorts.”
Jackie is currently playing Angel, a mother of street children, in an upcoming play, “If the Drugs Don’t Kill You, the Streets Will.” She described the play as, “sophisticated, with a twist. Very hardcore.”
“I’ve learned some good habits such as not using convenience ATMs, and the importance of saving. The people of CEF do have genuine concern about our welfare as far as our finances, job skills, etc. They have that drive and knowledge that inspires me to save more. “
“I love the computer classes with Joe and TWB. I hate computers, I mean absolutely hate them, and if I don’t have to use them then I won’t. But through CEF, I’ve learned how to keep up with my email, surfing the web, and other simple things that are helpful and enjoyable to me. And the best thing about it is I get a laptop at the end. And if they let me keep coming, I plan on it!”
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Name: Denise Mangum
Hometown: I am the fourth generation of Mangums to live in Durham, NC. My great-grandfather was a land owner and is displaying at the public library
Favorite Quote: My daddy used to say, “Gal, your eyes bigger than your belly huh gal.” He used to call us “gal”
Passions/Hobbies: “My mom loved to sew and that’s something I’ve taken up. I can make almost anything, like patterns, selecting materials, and started out making dressed for my Barbie dolls! I used to sneak and use my mom’s single sewing machine and never stopped!”
“The jeopardy game with CEF was awesome. GO FOR THE BIG MONEY! ,” she said, “Learning about resumes was great as well. CEF is fun to be around, friendly, intelligent and good fellowship.”
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Name: Denise Dickenson, newly announced President of Dove House. “I feel that this is truly a privilege,” Denise says.
Hometown: Durham, NC
Favorite Quote: “What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger!”
Interesting fact: “That girl can BURN in the kitchen!” – Vanessa Crockett, referencing Denise’s great skills in the kitchen.
Passions/Hobbies: Denise wants to be the best grandmother possible to her new 6 -month grandchild, Aubrey. She also enjoys reading, listening to music, and she says, “I’m funny too; I like to make people laugh.”
“I loved the jeopardy-millionaire game. Being involved with CEF through my safe savings account and the Opportunity Classes has helped me apply discipline in different areas of my life. Some of my favorite topics have been banking and staying on a budget.”
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Name: Tanica Parker
Hometown: Durham, NC
Favorite Quote: “Worry about nothing, pray about everything.”
Interesting Fact: “I want to eventually open my own daycare, and I look forward to partnering with CEF to accomplish that.”
“I appreciate the togetherness of the opportunity sessions. I’ve learned financial skills that are already beneficial. The advocates are all so helpful and easy to talk to. ”
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Name: Vanessa Crockett, Resident Manager
Favorite Quote: “1. Believe you can and you’re half way there! 2. Nothing is impossible, the word itself says, ‘I’m Possible!’ 3. In a gentle way, you can shake the world!”
Interesting fact: “I want to explore the deepest depths of the ocean. I believe in other life forms!”
Passions/Hobbies: “I would love to travel the world and become famous for my photography. Start a community garden. Write a book or screenplay. In my leisure I read and listen to all genres of music.”
“CEF has enlightened me with the importance of money management. CEF provides their time and service with an infectious enthusiasm. Their tenacity is a force to be reckoned with!!! CEF’s service work has heightened my sense of hope and self-sufficiency.”
We got a really wonderfully nice voicemail from one of our members, and wanted to share!
Hello! I was just calling because I wanted to let you know that I got a job. I had an interview last Friday, and I start today, which is Monday.
I’m excited and scared at the same time. I’m hoping that everything will work out okay. I want to thank you so much for encouraging me and guiding me and believing in me. It means a lot to me.
I know some people think stuff like that doesn’t matter, but it matters so much to me because I know there are certain places I can’t get to in life without other people supporting or helping me. And I have never let anybody support or help me, I never did, and now I see that it’s okay to accept other people’s help or support in order to get where I’m going in life.
I’m glad, and appreciate all of your love and support, and know I couldn’t have done it without you, I know I couldn’t.
But I still want to come up to CEF! I want to save my money, I have to save my money. I have two savings goals by the end of December so I’ll still come up there and I need someone to help me with my money like we discussed, so I’ll still be coming!
Love you!
By Peter Woo, Lend for America Intern
On Saturday, July 7, CEF celebrated its second annual Financial Independence Day by throwing a cookout party at HOPE Gardens. Though human flesh seemed to cook faster than the chicken (the grill was very small), CEF staff, volunteers, and members both veteran and new kept the spirit high with each other’s company. But it was a hot day, and the flow of the food supply was somewhat tight. Two of our members—Dennis and Ronald who had experience working for restaurants—and Mike—our former member, current Opportunity Class teacher and a former owner of a restaurant—were hard at work manning the grill and getting grilled.
When I grabbed my share of some potato salad and beans, I sheepishly asked Ronald to make sure to grab a plate himself.
“Nah, I’m good. I’ll wait until I see that there’s enough food for everyone.”
I felt many things all at once when I heard his reply: surprise, shame, admiration, gratefulness. For the moment, however, I felt that it would be best for Ronald if I magnified my feeling of gratefulness, though I was mostly ashamed. Ronald was doing something that is incredibly hard for people to do; he was going through a lot of discomfort for the benefit of others. A proper response would be to accept that thankfully and take a positive challenge to heart.
The second leg of CEF’s dual mission is to incubate genuine leadership within students. And it’s such a great nursery for that kind of growth because students are forced to greet some form of discomfort every day. For me, at least, doing my best to face and embrace discomfort every day forced me to see a lot of ugliness in me which in turn made me vulnerable. And I find that mutual vulnerability through discomfort is critical for an authentic community that softly assigns both parties, me and my clients, into a place of sameness.
As CEF currently goes through a process of growth, there seem to be some discomfort. Obviously, needless discomfort is a function of inefficiency, but I’m confident that CEF will grow into the kind of discomfort that promotes thoughtful self evaluation and community building vulnerability. It’s definitely not going to become an organization that grows comfortable.
“Very truly I tell you, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds.” John 12:24
Peter is a rising junior at the University of Notre Dame, and is interning with the Community Empowerment Fund through a national internship program called “Lend for America.” He has jumped right in and gotten involved in all levels of CEF’s programming this summer to learn about how we work and hopefully take some great lessons back to his home campus in Indiana, where he is starting a campus-based MFI called “JIFFI.”